When I was in JHS 2, there was a classmate whose name is Kofi. Kofi will be present in school everyday but after putting his back in class, he will vanish and reappear at closing time. When our class teacher would be marking the class register and Kofi’s name is mentioned, all we say is…
Why hidden strength matters more than surface beauty in marriage In architecture, the most crucial parts of a building are often the ones you don’t see. The iron rods, the concrete foundation, the internal support beams. These hidden elements determine whether the structure can withstand pressure, storms, and the test of time. On the other…
Continuous Maintenance as Communication, Intimacy, and Growth. Even the strongest buildings require regular maintenance such as repairs, updates, and care. Relationships are no different. Some key maintenance practices include but not limited to: Consistent communication: Checking in emotionally, discussing challenges, and celebrating wins. Intentional intimacy: Prioritizing both physical and emotional connection. Adaptation and growth: Evolving…
Windows and Doors as Openness and Vulnerability Windows bring light into a house, just as openness brings clarity into relationships. Doors, meanwhile, symbolize the choice of who and what to let in. Vulnerability: Being emotionally open and honest without fear of judgment. How? Try opening up about your personal struggles, doubts, or past wounds without…
The Walls, the Roof, as Boundaries and Protection. Why do you think every home has walls? Exactly so! We do this to provide security, and roof to shield against external forces. This is also true in relationships; boundaries and protection serve the same purpose: Healthy boundaries: Knowing where individuality ends and partnership begins, ensuring that…
The Pillars: Trust, Respect, and Emotional Safety Once we lay the foundation, the relationship needs strong pillars to hold it up. These pillars represent the key elements that sustain love through different seasons of life. Let us identify and erect these pillars. How couples can build trust in their marriage. Trust: couples can deepen trust…
Building Love That Lasts Love, like architecture, is not just about a beautiful exterior, it is about strength, durability, and intentional design. A well-constructed relationship follows the same principles as a solid building. A strong foundation, supportive pillars, and continuous maintenance are what make a building great. Without these, even the most passionate love can…