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Finding the “Moana” in our journey.
Who can help us heal? Healing often requires a catalyst - someone who sees beyond our pain. When we are consumed by our wounds, it can feel impossible to believe…
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Becoming Te Kā
How unhealed pain changes a person Unhealed wounds transform us. Te Fiti became Te Kā; angry, destructive, and unable to recognize herself. This iconic transformation from Disney’s Moana captures a…
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The moment the heart was stolen – understanding emotional wounds.
Every emotional wound has its origin, often hidden in the significant moments when our sense of security, trust, or love was shattered. These wounds can be likened to the story…
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Present Out – Part Three
Psychological and Emotional benefits of Presence Reduced Stress and Anxiety: When you are actively engaged in a relationship, it creates a sense of stability and security. Knowing that you are…
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Present Out – Part Two
Antidotes to combat 'Present Out' behavior in relationships Prioritize quality time: Dedicate undivided attention to your partner by setting aside time for meaningful connection. This could mean scheduling date nights,…
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Present Out – Part One
When I was in JHS 2, there was a classmate whose name is Kofi. Kofi will be present in school everyday but after putting his back in class, he will…
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The Architecture of a Strong Relationship Series – Part 6
Why hidden strength matters more than surface beauty in marriage In architecture, the most crucial parts of a building are often the ones you don’t see. The iron rods, the…
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The Architecture of a Strong Relationship Series – Part 5
Continuous Maintenance as Communication, Intimacy, and Growth. Even the strongest buildings require regular maintenance such as repairs, updates, and care. Relationships are no different. Some key maintenance practices include but…
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The Architecture of a Strong Relationship Series – Part 4
Windows and Doors as Openness and Vulnerability Windows bring light into a house, just as openness brings clarity into relationships. Doors, meanwhile, symbolize the choice of who and what to…
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The architecture of a Strong Relationship Series – Part 3
The Walls, the Roof, as Boundaries and Protection. Why do you think every home has walls? Exactly so! We do this to provide security, and roof to shield against external…