This morning I noticed something curious. It is something that has always been happening with everyone, but we don’t put our minds to it. My phone battery had dropped overnight, even though I wasn’t using it. This reminded me of something deeper: Phones lose battery simply to stay on. Human beings burn energy just to…
Introduction. Have you ever noticed how weeds grow almost anywhere through cracks in concrete, in dry sand, on rocky hillsides while crops need fertile soil, watering, and careful attention to thrive? This isn’t just a botanical truth; it’s a spiritual and life principle hiding in plain sight. In this article, we’ll explore profound life lessons…
In every marriage that ends in divorce, there were warning signs long before the final blow. But many couples don’t see them. Or worse, they do see them, but minimize their impact. That’s why I created a word to describe this slow, silent decline. I call it duicidal. What Does “Duicidal” Mean? Duicidal (adj.): Describes…
Introduction It’s heartbreaking that we even have to talk about this. But the world we live in demands that men not only be good but be cautious also. This blog is not about paranoia. It’s about wisdom. It’s about helping good men avoid walking into traps that could destroy their lives. Know the Red Flags…
Introduction It’s a question most people are afraid to ask: why would a woman lie about rape? In a world that has rightfully fought to give survivors a voice, questioning any claim feels like betrayal. But there’s another side, a deeply disturbing one where some men have lost years of their lives, their careers, and…
There are days life feels like a gourmet experience, full of unexpected courses, strange flavors, and unfamiliar textures. And yet, we have no menu in our hands. No option to pick what we want. Just a seat at the table and a quiet instruction: You must eat it. This morning, a thought echoed in my…
When Abena first picked up her paintbrush again, it felt awkward. The strokes didn’t come as easily as they once had, and the blank canvas seemed more intimidating than it ever had before. She hadn’t painted in years, and it took time for her to reconnect with the excitement she used to feel when she…
Abena had always been the “perfect” wife. She spent her days managing the household, attending to her children, and supporting her husband in every way she could. At first, she didn’t mind, it felt like a natural progression, a way of fulfilling her role. She found joy in making sure everyone else’s needs were met,…
As time passes, it becomes easy to confuse who we are with the roles we’ve taken on. Whether it’s the wife, mother, or career woman, these identities often start to feel like the only version of ourselves that matters. Over time, these roles wrap around us like layers, creating a shell that seems to define…
There comes a time when a woman looks in the mirror and doesn’t recognize the person staring back at her. The fire in her eyes has dimmed, her laughter sounds foreign, and the dreams she once carried so passionately feel like remnants of another life. It happens so subtly that she often doesn’t realize the…