The Role of Accountability in Restoration Maui had to acknowledge his role in stealing Te Fiti’s heart. In Moana, Maui’s journey to redemption begins with an act of accountability. By facing the consequences of his actions, he begins to heal the damage caused not only to Te Fiti but also to himself. This moment of…
Who can help us heal? Healing often requires a catalyst – someone who sees beyond our pain. When we are consumed by our wounds, it can feel impossible to believe that healing is even an option. Enter someone who acts as our mirror, reminding us of our essence and the parts of ourselves we may…
How unhealed pain changes a person Unhealed wounds transform us. Te Fiti became Te Kā; angry, destructive, and unable to recognize herself. This iconic transformation from Disney’s Moana captures a universal truth: pain left unresolved doesn’t simply fade; it morphs and reshapes us in ways we might not realize. Like Te Kā, we may lash…
Every emotional wound has its origin, often hidden in the significant moments when our sense of security, trust, or love was shattered. These wounds can be likened to the story of Te Fiti’s heart being stolen in Disney’s Moana. When the heart was taken, the land grew barren, dark, and lifeless—a striking metaphor for what…
The Exterior – Paint, Decorations, and Furniture: Public Displays and Social Perception. Once a building is completed, people admire the paint job, the decorations, and the furniture. These are what catch the eye, but they do not determine the building’s strength. A house can be beautifully painted yet structurally weak. In marriage, the “paint and…
The Internal Support System – Beams and Reinforcements: Trust and Emotional Security. Inside every solid building, there are support beams, reinforcements, and structures that keep the walls standing. These are hidden within the walls, but they distribute weight and provide stability. In marriage, these hidden reinforcements represent: Trust: The belief that your partner is reliable,…
Why hidden strength matters more than surface beauty in marriage In architecture, the most crucial parts of a building are often the ones you don’t see. The iron rods, the concrete foundation, the internal support beams. These hidden elements determine whether the structure can withstand pressure, storms, and the test of time. On the other…
Continuous Maintenance as Communication, Intimacy, and Growth. Even the strongest buildings require regular maintenance such as repairs, updates, and care. Relationships are no different. Some key maintenance practices include but not limited to: Consistent communication: Checking in emotionally, discussing challenges, and celebrating wins. Intentional intimacy: Prioritizing both physical and emotional connection. Adaptation and growth: Evolving…
Windows and Doors as Openness and Vulnerability Windows bring light into a house, just as openness brings clarity into relationships. Doors, meanwhile, symbolize the choice of who and what to let in. Vulnerability: Being emotionally open and honest without fear of judgment. How? Try opening up about your personal struggles, doubts, or past wounds without…
The Walls, the Roof, as Boundaries and Protection. Why do you think every home has walls? Exactly so! We do this to provide security, and roof to shield against external forces. This is also true in relationships; boundaries and protection serve the same purpose: Healthy boundaries: Knowing where individuality ends and partnership begins, ensuring that…