What is Ashabari? It is the sacred understanding that in a true union, partners are not just lovers, but co-carriers of each other’s dreams, scars, growth, and legacy. It teaches that love is not just intimacy; it is mutual protection, shared responsibility, and emotional covering. In Ashabari, you don’t walk ahead of your partner. You…
What is Ashabari? It is the sacred understanding that in a true union, partners are not just lovers, but co-carriers of each other’s dreams, scars, growth, and legacy. It teaches that love is not just intimacy; it is mutual protection, shared responsibility, and emotional covering. In Ashabari, you don’t walk ahead of your partner. You…
A car can have the best wheels money can buy, but without an engine, it won’t move an inch. On the flip side, it can have a roaring engine under the hood, full of torque and horsepower, but if the wheels are missing, it’s just noise in a garage. Funny thing is, many marriages today…
Luxury is a Trap: What families should stop chasing now The world order You work longer hours. You barely rest. Your spouse is stressed, and your kids are growing up on YouTube and processed snacks. And what are all these for? A bigger TV or a dream car? Matching family pajamas on Instagram and a…
The Age of Distraction: Why peaceful homes must be built intentionally now. The reality in many homes. You’re together though, but not really. In the same house, but each on your own screen. You share a bed, but sleep back-to-back. The TV is always on. The phones are always near. The conversation? Rare and shallow….
When love isn’t just a label, but a transformation. “Couplified”, (adjective). It is the state of being reshaped, refined, and elevated by intentional relationship work. Where It Begins Many people think that being in a relationship means being “taken.” But being taken isn’t the same as being transformed. Being couplified means that love has done more…
In every marriage that ends in divorce, there were warning signs long before the final blow. But many couples don’t see them. Or worse, they do see them, but minimize their impact. That’s why I created a word to describe this slow, silent decline. I call it duicidal. What Does “Duicidal” Mean? Duicidal (adj.): Describes…
Psychological and Emotional benefits of Presence Reduced Stress and Anxiety: When you are actively engaged in a relationship, it creates a sense of stability and security. Knowing that you are supported and valued by someone can alleviate stress and reduce feelings of worry or loneliness. Enhanced Emotional Intimacy: Being present helps build trust and emotional…
Antidotes to combat ‘Present Out’ behavior in relationships Prioritize quality time: Dedicate undivided attention to your partner by setting aside time for meaningful connection. This could mean scheduling date nights, sharing meals without distractions, or engaging in activities you both enjoy. Presence is not just about being there, it is about being fully engaged. Communicate…
When I was in JHS 2, there was a classmate whose name is Kofi. Kofi will be present in school everyday but after putting his back in class, he will vanish and reappear at closing time. When our class teacher would be marking the class register and Kofi’s name is mentioned, all we say is…