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Returning the Heart
What true healing looks like in love and life When Te Fiti’s heart was returned, she blossomed back into herself. This moment from Moana beautifully symbolizes the transformative power of…
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The Long Walk to Healing
Overcoming challenges in trust rebuilding Healing isn’t instant. It’s a gradual process, one that requires patience, persistence, and self-compassion. Rebuilding trust, whether in ourselves or others, often means navigating setbacks…
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Facing Maui
The Role of Accountability in Restoration Maui had to acknowledge his role in stealing Te Fiti’s heart. In Moana, Maui's journey to redemption begins with an act of accountability. By…
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Finding the “Moana” in our journey.
Who can help us heal? Healing often requires a catalyst - someone who sees beyond our pain. When we are consumed by our wounds, it can feel impossible to believe…
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Becoming Te Kā
How unhealed pain changes a person Unhealed wounds transform us. Te Fiti became Te Kā; angry, destructive, and unable to recognize herself. This iconic transformation from Disney’s Moana captures a…
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The moment the heart was stolen – understanding emotional wounds.
Every emotional wound has its origin, often hidden in the significant moments when our sense of security, trust, or love was shattered. These wounds can be likened to the story…
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Present Out – Part Three
Psychological and Emotional benefits of Presence Reduced Stress and Anxiety: When you are actively engaged in a relationship, it creates a sense of stability and security. Knowing that you are…
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Present Out – Part Two
Antidotes to combat 'Present Out' behavior in relationships Prioritize quality time: Dedicate undivided attention to your partner by setting aside time for meaningful connection. This could mean scheduling date nights,…
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Present Out – Part One
When I was in JHS 2, there was a classmate whose name is Kofi. Kofi will be present in school everyday but after putting his back in class, he will…
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The Architecture of a Strong Relationship Series – Part 8
The Exterior - Paint, Decorations, and Furniture: Public Displays and Social Perception. Once a building is completed, people admire the paint job, the decorations, and the furniture. These are what…