Sexual Abuse or Marital Rape in Marriage

Sexual abuse or marital rape occurs when one spouse forces non-consensual sexual acts on the other. Historically, marital rape was overlooked in some jurisdictions, but many legal systems now recognize it as both a criminal offense and a tort. Under tort law, such acts can give rise to claims for battery, assault, and, intentional infliction of emotional distress (IIED).
Examples of acts that fall under this tort
- Non-Consensual Acts: Forcing sexual acts without the spouse’s consent.
- Coercion: Using threats, intimidation, or manipulation to obtain sexual compliance.
- Exploitation: Violating boundaries by recording or sharing intimate acts without consent.
Real Case Example
In People v. Liberta, a landmark case in New York, the court ruled that marital rape laws should be applied equally to spouses. While primarily a criminal case, civil claims for damages are also possible in such circumstances.
Possible Judgment
Courts may grant:
- Compensatory Damages: Covering medical bills, therapy costs, and emotional harm.
- Punitive Damages: To punish the abusive spouse and deter similar actions in the future.
- Restraining Orders: To protect the victim from further harm.
Take Home
For potential victims sexual abuse
- Understand that consent is a fundamental right in marriage. No one has the right to force or coerce you.
- Seek help immediately through trusted authorities or support organizations.
For potential perpetrators sexual abuse
- Recognize that marital status does not grant entitlement to a spouse’s consent.
- Understand the legal and moral implications of non-consensual acts.
- Consider seeking counselling to address harmful behaviors.
For Everyone
- Respect your partner’s boundaries and communicate openly about consent.
- Advocate for awareness and education about marital rights and the importance of mutual respect.